Write. Publish. Repeat.

I've taken a little time off and reevaluated my career as an author. At times being a self publish author can feel like sitting in a boat with a slow leak. The waters getting higher and my little boat (my sales) are sinking. What do I do? Did I fail? Doubt circles like a patient shark, watching, waiting. Do I give up? What do I really want from this?

How does one define success in this field? There are lots of questions and different answers for everyone. Years ago when my work attire consisted of navy blue scrubs and the smell of cat pee, I daydreamed of being a successful author. I'd write from the comfort of my home, my kids with me, and I had full control of my time. I could spend the day with family or write to my hearts content. I was in charge. I was the boss of me. The idea of money was a vague wish. I would have enough to have a three bedroom home, car, etc. The point was I would have ENOUGH.

So what do I have to show for this so called writing career of mine? At present, eleven published novels, a three bedroom house, two kids I get to stay home with, and enough money. No debt, I repeat, NO DEBT. My writing income paid off our debt :)

Now, to be clear, my sales are not a runaway freight train that has blessed me with all these things. I have them because of my husband. His job supports us, his job bought the three bedroom house and it's because of his job I get to stay home. So am I successful?

Does it matter? I got what I wanted. I'm choosing to be happy with my level of success. I'm not giving up on this little boat, but thanks to my husband the water isn't deep and I can just get out and pull it to shore.

I will continue to write, publish, and repeat until my heart and head have no more stories to tell, no more characters begging to fall in love. Love is my drug and I'm just glad this little habit of mine supports itself.

That isn't to say I'm not working to increase sales. I am. I've got beautiful new covers in an effort to bring both my series to the surface again for much needed air and a new title for the first book in my Desperate and Daring Series. Have a look!

Check out the gallery on the bottom of my home page at ellajquince.com to see all updated covers.

 

Cheers,

Ella

Video Cover Reveal for Anything But Innocent!

I hope you like it!

Happy New Year!

I'm so excited for the new year! 2015 brought me a lot of wonderful things, like my daughter Hanna, a new job for the hubs, and a new house! How's that for change?! It's really been an awesome year and I hope 2016 will be just as great. What are your plans for this New Years Eve? We're spending it with family and will be going to bed early. I'm ok sleeping through the ball drop. Sleep is precious to me and the hubby has to work early in the morning.

I'm excited to announce that my raffle and cover reveal will begin at midnight PST. It runs from the 1st to the 4th, so don't feel like you have to wait up to participate and please share with your friends! See the gorgeous cover for the fourth book in my Desperate and Daring Series and enter my raffle for a prize! I've also got a brand new website I've been working on and lots of fun things I will be doing in the new year to promote my books, including offering signed copies through my site!

New Years Raffle Prize!

This year I'm taking my business and my books to the next level. I will be more organized, more productive, and more successful. The more, the more. That is actually a hypnotic prompt I used when I practiced hypnosis several years ago. I've been on a long journey trying to discover who I am and what my purpose in life is. Now at the age of thirty, I know who I am and what I want. I'm an author. That is so clear to me now. Everything I've experienced before now has led me to here.

Happy New Year. Celebrate quietly, or as crazy as you like, but always celebrate. The changing of time brings opportunity. Don't waste it.

Cheers,
Ella


 Check out the raffle on my facebook page!

Yoga With A Baby

Have you seen those videos of people doing yoga and their pets are climbing on them? It's funny right? Well, while my kitty did supervise, it was my daughter who climbed all over me. Still adorable and funny. She gets so excited when people are on the ground with her. She even has her own version of downward dog.

 She does this all the time and it cracks us up. There is never a dull moment with this little girl. Please excuse the messy living room, or not. I have two small children and most of the time I just don't care. Cleaning with small children around is like trying to dry your car off with a towel while it's raining. I have better things to do than keep my house looking like a better homes and gardens magazine. It's called living, playing with my kids, or being lazy. It's great.

Anyway, I'm really proud of myself for accomplishing the yoga this morning. I've reached my goal weight post baby, but looking at my body, I certainly don't look it, and the size of my clothes are not changing. Weird, right?
I HATE EXERCISE. But, I found that I do enjoy yoga. So, yoga it is. If only I could manage to do it on a regular basis, which I still can't. I am the queen of procrastination when it comes to exercising or anything on a regular, scheduled basis. It's amazing I manage to get anything done. If I somehow got my act together and was organized and efficient I think I could rule the world.

Don't worry, World. That is unlikely to happen. But I am trying. I've reorganized my files, gotten a planner to keep track of things I need to do on a day by day basis. I'm taking things one day at a time. Small goals and small steps work for me.

Today's goals are:

• Yoga 
• Blog post
• Edits on Mine, All Mine *
• Stay off The Debil (aka Facebook) until after 6pm.

*Mine, All Mine is the first book I ever wrote and as I prepare it for print I'm doing a little rewriting. Nothing major, just basics like my overuse of the word nearly and junk like that. I cringe when I read it and I don't want to feel that way. Every author has a first book that is rough around the edges. I've learned so much since I wrote that book that I just need to fix some errors and clean it up. It represents me and I want it to shine like it should. The e-book version will be updated once I'm finished, too.

Wish me luck with my goal list and I hope you have a happy Friday. Youtube Yoga With Adriene if you are interested in trying some yoga. She is really fun and quirky.

I want to spend my life time loving you...

If that is all in life I ever do...

Tonight I took a trip back to 1998 and watched The Mask of Zorro, much to my 4yr old's chagrin. It took some convincing, pretend sword fighting, and enthusiastic shouts of Zorro! He was dead set on watching Minuscule, a cute movie about a Ladybug. Ugh. Can I get a little romance please?!

I don't get to watch this stuff when the hubs is home. But, I got my movie and I got my Antonio Banderas fix. I love this movie and I especially love the song at the end. It's sung by Tina Arena and Marc Anthony. It encompasses everything I love about romance, falling in love, the racing heartbeat, the amplified emotions. I can feel it all at once in one song and it makes my muse go crazy with ideas. It's like a drug and I can't get enough of it. I want to spend my life loving, being in love, giving love, spreading love. That is my gift. That is my purpose.

In fact today, on Facebook of all places, I heard a very enlightening speech from Jim Carey about what we give to the world. Maybe I was meant to hear it, because there is a hefty amount of doubt and ridicule that comes with being a romance writer. What I do may seem small and insignificant, but it isn't. Jim Carey gives laughter to the world and that is precious. I give love. Through books I give love. Does that sound ridiculous? Probably, but to me it isn't. I can't count the hours I've spent reading romance but each of them are valuable to me. Those were hours I forgot about unhappiness and sadness. Hours I smiled instead of crying. Hours I spent unaware of my loneliness. If I can do that for someone else I have done something vitally important.

Please enjoy the song and if you haven't seen the movie, watch it!

                         

Writer(s): James Horner, Will Jennings
Copyright: Tsp Music Inc., Blue Sky Rider Songs, Triple Star Music Inc., Horner Music

Wanted: Time Traveling DeLorean.

Where does time go? It's been far too long since I made a blog post and that just proves that I'm still the weakest link in this one woman show. It's not that I haven't been busy. I've been extremely busy, and I did finish a book, but I've also been moving and attempting some success at another venture.
What I've learned is that there really is no such thing as multitasking.

I need to be better at my business, and my business is writing and publishing.  I haven't been pushing myself. I'm still on the fringes of success with a small readership and that means there is no real demand for my work.

I have to cultivate that demand and it starts with me. I need this. My family needs this. I write for myself but also for the financial stability of my family. This is my job and I need to get better at treating it as such. That means more time, not just writing but promoting. I suck at promotion. That has to change. How will I reach readers if I make no effort to put my face and my books out there?

I've talked a lot about discipline and I'm still struggling with it. I've discovered that small achievable goals take me further than lofty ones.  So where do I begin? I need a small goal to achieve every morning. Once I manage that then I will set daily goals, then weekly, monthly etc. Goals like a daily word count, posting one promotional thing each day. Small steps that ultimately make a big impact.
At the end of the day when time has run out, I only have myself to blame for what I did and didn't do for my business.

-Ella

Be Grateful

 When I see pics/posts like this one to the left on Facebook I almost always roll my eyes and scroll by. Believe me, I am grateful for what I have. I worked hard for it. I've sacrificed, I've scrimped, and I've gone without. I've lived through my rock bottom and I came out on the other side humbled and determined. So, forgive me if I sneer at these sort of things. I haven't been seeing them in the right light.

Today I came across a pin on Pinterest that caught my eye. 101 Ways to Build the Writer Platform of Your Dreams. This pin leads to the site yourwriterplatform.com and a list of 39 Things to Remember While Building Your Writing Career. I love finding  bits of info like this through Pinterest. There is always room for improvement. #26 is what shook my tree today.

Change "I have to" to "I get to"

The above is credited to James Clear and his illuminating site, jamesclear.com/how-to-be-thankful.
I could go on and on about this, but the point of this post is to share the awesome things I get to do and remember often to be grateful because I get to do them.

You should do this, too. Try it. It feels really good.

• I get to write about falling in love.
• I get to stay home with my kids.
• I get to wake up to the sound of baby coo's and not an alarm.
• I get to take a sick day whenever I need it, regardless of whether or not I'm actually sick. 
• I get to see family whenever I want.

• I never have to say "I can't, I have to work" ever again. I shape my work around my family life.

These things mean everything to me. During this post alone I've stopped multiple times to snuggle my daughter and peeled a squished strawberry off a pillow. #momlife

The moral of the story is, change the way you see being grateful. Its isn't just about what you have, especially if what you have kinda sucks. It's ok to want more if you are willing to do the work. But don't skip over the little things. Appreciate them, feel the accomplishment they represent. They are the stepping stones to your dreams. 

I recommend reading through the list I linked above. Always make time to learn something new for your craft. Absorb what resonates with you and leave the rest.
 

Cheers,
Ella